Why does he spank my *** in public? My bf has a habit of spanking my *** whenever he's behind me, to surprise me or whatever. The other day we were walking down the stairs wtih friends and he spanks my *** pretty hard while I turned the corner. He did it every time I turned the corner. I kinda got embarrassed cuz i was with friends> Guys? Why do you like to do this? And is this kind of slutty? Does this show he has no respect for me? |
| maybe be u have an incredible hind portion. |
Why does my boyfriend spank my *** when i bend over to get stuff? when i bend to reach something he always spank my *** really hard! i love it when he does it. why? |
First, Three, I love your response.
As for the actual question:
I've asked my husband this dozens of times of and he only responds with "Because it's there." |
At what age should i stop spanking my daughter's bare *** ? she is now turning thirteen years old. but the older she gets, the more spankings she needs. I still use only my hand, should i go to a belt or something that she will really fill. She says she is to old to be spanked with her panties down, but a spanking needs to be felt. |
In your own words, "the more spankings she needs."
Doesn't that kind of tell you that spankings aren't working? Even if she were an animal and you were trying to train her, inflicting physical pain might get you the results you want, if obedience caused by fear is what you're looking for.
At thirteen, she's at an age where she is going through enough hormonal chaos. Yes, she's growing up and before you know it, she'll be an adult and probably headed out the door without looking back. With her history of being physically punished, she'll likely end up with men who mistreat just the same because that is how she'll equate love.
Why not try establishing a mutually respectful environment for her instead? Show her she's considered more than a hitting post; that you value who she is. Maybe, by giving her some self-esteem, you'll get more positive results. Yes, it's harder (and takes more time) to do it this way, but it works. Yes, it is possible to lay down rules and enforce them without resorting to spanking. |
Is there any difference between spanking a guy and beating them? Is there any difference between spanking or "whooping" your guy as a punishment and beating them?
I've heard lots of parents say that they "smack" their guys in the face as a punishment. So, how is smacking your guy any different than spanking them in the ***? |
| There is a huge difference, but I have learned that if people don't know the difference on their own it is pointless to try and educate them. |
Should I get spanked on the *** or hand? My dad is going to spank me 36 times and he's making me choose whether to choose him to hit me with a belt on the *** or the hands, and could you help me make it hurt less? |
Having to hold your hand out for that many would be most difficult, IMO. IF he is determined to belt you that much and you are willing to accept it, I'd think on the butt would be easier ... just lay over something and try not to move too much. IMO hands can be damaged much more easily, and from what you have not said, he might let you keep some clothing on.
To try to make it seem to hurt less ... tell him you are a "maturing" daughter and that it would be more appropriate that the belting be given by your mother.
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Whoever got spanked/ *** whipping/ beatings as a guy or still does? Why do people say it's wrong it teaches the guy manners , discipline , and how to be tough it says so In the bible
I used to get racked up when I was a guy it stopped about 13 yrs old. But I'll still get it if I disrespect my parents
when did you stop getting hit? |
He who spares the rod hates his son,
but he who loves him is careful to discipline him.
Proverbs 13:24
i stopped getting hit at 10-12 yrs old but the lesson i have learnt will stay with me forever , some say it's wrong becuase sometimes the spanking does go to far the parent spanks the guy so often that they find it an easy way to realease there anger on leaving the innocent guy with bruises and scars that would mentally and psyhcoligically torment them |
Was I out of line for spanking a girl? Alright, so I was at the gym today and was all juiced up on my supplements and was feeling pretty good and confident. So anyway I spot this really hot girl and instantly start hitting on her. We were talking and having a good time, so I though it would be a good idea to playfully spank her ***. She flipped out and practically ran away. I didn't think much of it at the time, but do you guys think I was out of line? |
| yeah i would flip out too. it will be ok just say your sorry, just explain what happened. she will probably understand. |
Can pretending to spank a girls *** traumautize her? She was a Classmates. And there's evidnce I traumatize her bc she's constantly asking whether or not I date a certain a girl and she wrote stuff about penis....is that signs psychological trauma? Did I sexually harass her |
| If you touched her without a mutual consent then yeah more than likely you traumatized her!!.....how would you like it if someone touched your sis, mom, cousin, niece, like that? |
Is it wrong to receive spanking from my husband at bare bottomed? me and ma hus is in deep luv.....But he gav me spank when i did anything wrong...is it very common in all family...every sunday night we went to bed with cane..he caned me twice in ma *** for any mistake that i had did that week...at that time only i get angry and i still luv him...are u support this kinds of home discipline???? |
Jasmin, unless you both enjoy this and do it for pleasure, it is NOT GOOD.
No one deserves to be treated that way for discipline. RUN!!!! NOW!!!! |
Would you agree that spanking is ineffective after a certain age ? It seems to be very good for younger guyren that is if not done excessively or too harshly but by the time a guy reaches 13 isn't it just a waste of time ...
There are a couple of teens i know of who still get spanked , and thats with a belt on the bare *** ...which kinda makes me think what the hell are their parents thinking ... |
Using a belt on their bare bottom is called "assault with a deadly weapon". The teens are legally within their rights to report their parents for physical abuse.
Being physically abusive is ineffective for older guyren and gives the wrong message. The parents need to find a more suitable punishment for their teens. |